Dino Manes David
We always have at least one choice -- "what attitude we want to face our current circumstances with." A second choice we always have is to view each moment in our lives with the perspective of "How do these circumstances help me accomplish my goals?" A third choice is "to live in the moment".
I can hear you grumbling ... but those are not the choices I want. I want love, happiness, health, wealth, good teeth, the purple cloak rather than the beige one, to go to Disneyland, to go to school, to get *this* job, to be healthy ....
Crud happens. The bottom line is:
You are always going to have *something* going on in your life. It may not be something you want. Or, it may be something you want passionately.
*The something* may not be an occasion where you can control the outcome.
Controlling a specific outcome and choice are not the same thing.
Yet, in any instance ... you make choices that affect your life, and in tandem with a ripple effect the lives of all those around you.
Truly heinous episodes can be jarring, emotionally laden, and stultifying.
Is it possible to release the learning we have accrued in viewing a crisis, or being thwarted to being frozen or curtailment? Instead can we use the exigency as a bridge to where we want to be?
By choosing to live in the moment with awareness, yes.
Since this is my birthday, and in the face of all the circumstances I currently have going on (from homelessness, to disability, to general health, on the stultifying side -- to having wonderful mentors and food to eat and the opportunity to write, and a brilliant EMDR therapist, on the joyous side) I choose to use all these things to manifest my goals.
Happy birthday to me and my explorations of what can be. Here at Lost Awareness, I am channeling my focus on Homeless Advocacy. At studio rd I am channeling my focus on what I do well and can do in other areas of advocacy, in providing myself with sources of income, and most importantly, play.
And to you I wish the best of all worlds.